mostly nonfiction and bakersfield news | September 29th, 2009
Hey chingpea, ‘How Do I Break-Up With Her?’
I need help to break up with a girl I’ve been with since high school. It’s been 6 years and we’re not young anymore. We’ve grown apart but I know she’s not good with change. I’m ready to move on.
Is there any way to break up with a girl and still be friends? I really [...]
Hey chingpea, ‘Help Me Make Sex Hotter…’
My husband and I have been married for about 5 years now. I’m tired of the same old thing: missionary, doggy-style, 69, and the scissors routines to the slow jams. It’s not bad, it’s just getting predictable and boring and I don’t want that to lead into a slump.
We’re not the perfect, physically fit kind [...]
Hey chingpea, ‘I Miss The Kissing…’
Have you seen the movie with Julia Roberts, “Pretty Woman?” There’s a line in there the prostitutes say something like “never kiss him on the mouth…” They say it’s too personal.
I’m not saying I’m comparing myself to a prostitute but it’s been a long time since I’ve been kissed on the mouth!
He says he loves [...]
Hey chingpea, ‘She Doesn’t Love Him, But I Do…’
We’ve been a trio for as long as I can remember and they’ve been a couple for about six years. Lately, she’s been complaining that maybe being with him has been a huge mistake and wants out, but doesn’t want to quite let go. I’d love for her to let him go. Problem is, she [...]
Hey chingpea, ‘He Loves Me Not’
My boyfriend and I have been together 8 years, living together the last 2. We are practically married (just without that piece paper that makes it legal).
Lately, I’ve been having the itch to run, not because I don’t love him, but because he makes me feel like he doesn’t love me anymore. Like, I’m just [...]
Hey chingpea, ‘I Made A Mistake And I Want Her Back…’
I’ve tried all I can to win her back but she won’t give me a minute of her time. It’s my fault though. A couple of years ago, she was battling a cancer and we were engaged. I couldn’t handle what she was going through, so like a punk ass, I ran.
I was wrong about [...]
Hey chingpea, ‘I Woke Up The Next Day Not Remembering’
I recently met someone at a local event and went home with him after the festivities. It must have been the festivities and all the celebrating, but I woke up the next day not remembering if I even enjoyed the night before. Apparently, after talking to him, he didn’t remember much either.
We’ve been [...]
Hey chingpea, ‘I’m Not Ready To Go Down The Aisle…’
I’m 35 years old and my girlfriend and I have been together for 8 years now (2 of which were long distance because of the work I was in). She wants to get married. So I proposed and got her a ring but negotiated a long engagement. I love her and feel like we’re a strong [...]
Hey chingpea, ‘Why Am I Still Single? I Want To Be A Couple…’
Help me. Give me advice on how to get a man! I’m tired of being single. I’m in my late 30s and I want to be married. Or at least a part of a long-lasting relationship with someone who won’t toss me off like yesterday’s paper. What’s the deal these days?! Why can’t people commit?
I’m [...]
Hey chingpea, ‘Just Answer 4 Questions Please…’
I put it in Q & A form. I’m frustrated. Need answers of some sort to help myself move on. Thank you in advance.
1. Do you think men are more attracted to appearance or a strong career?
2. Do men really fake orgasms?
3. Why is it that some men can spend a crap-load of money on [...]
